Oct 29 2010
And Now for Something Really Spooky
Posted by hmark
Privacy
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As we prepare to celebrate Halloween this weekend, we often think about how to keep our kids safe while they are trick or treating. We make sure that they stay in our neighborhood and only visit the houses of people that we know. We make sure that they can be seen after dark with reflective strips, flashlights, and glow sticks. We encourage our older kids to stay with the group and we even inspect our kids candy before we let them eat it. Many of these practices are things that we learned from our parents and are based on our experience and common sense. Unfortunately, one of the greatest dangers to our kids often lurks right in our home…their computers.
With apologies for the sensationalism, it is imperative that we take the same precautions with our kids in the virtual world as we do in the real world. In an open letter to parents in the FBI’s “A Parent’s Guide to Internet Safety,” Louis J. Freeh states, “Unfortunately the same advances in computer and telecommunication technology that allow our children to reach out to new sources of knowledge and cultural experiences are also leaving them vulnerable to exploitation…”
There are laws designed to protect children’s privacy online. Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act, or COPPA, is perhaps the best known. This law regulates the information practices of websites that target children under 13 years of age. While this law is good tool to protect our kids, it really only impacts those businesses that are trying to market to kids. The truly scary stuff is much more difficult to pinpoint and target for regulation. Fortunately, there are a number of tips that parents can use to help protect their kids online, just as they would in the real world. Some of those tips include:
- Place the computer in a common, family area. This allows parents to keep an eye on what their kids are doing online.
- Limit the time that children are allowed on the internet. Unlimited internet time provides kids the opportunity to overshare. Understanding boundaries and limits on the sharing of private information is imperative.
- Install child protection software. There are a number of products that parents can install on the computer. These can do a variety of things from monitoring websites and preventing kids from visiting certain sites, to logging keystrokes and maintaining chat histories. While there are privacy considerations for parents and teens to talk through for older kids, these products will keep parents involved and aware of their childrens’ online activities.
- Talk with your kids. Help your kids to understand that, while the internet is a wonderful tool, it can also be dangerous. Let them know what is ok for them to do and what is not. Know who their online friends are and what they are talking about. As with any other area, being involved is the best way to keep them safe.
There are a variety of resources designed to inform parents on how to keep their kids safe online. Some of those include:
SafeKids – online safety and civility
NetSmartz Workshop - this site is provided by the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
iKeepSafe – Parent Resource Center
We hope that everyone has a safe and Happy Halloween!
Dr. Heather Mark, PhD. SVP of Market Strategy
